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Life is Art; We are the Artists

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Life would be a beautiful painting if death wasn’t always showing up and pouring turpentine on it. But every time, we pull out our brushes and we start to fix the smudges. We begin blending the colors back in where they belonged, but it never quite looks the same as it did before, does it? Sometimes, there’s just a little turpentine… a distant cousin or a friend of a friend of a friend or perhaps even a character in a book or movie (unless it's John Wick's dog, because... come on). Those are generally fairly easy to paint over, and sometimes, you can’t even tell it was there. There's the mid-level ones... acquaintances, coworkers, pets. These spatter turpentine over a wide area, leaving gaping holes, but eventually, with a lot of work and time, those areas, too, will be covered back over. You'll remember the images beneath, but you can see the new beauty in the spaces you filled. Then, there’s the huge ones: immediate family, close friends, spouses, children. These make...
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  Confessions of a Fisherman's (Almost) Wife When he first told me he was going to be a commercial fisherman in the Bering Sea, I thought, "sure, dude." I seriously expected him to entertain the idea for about two weeks while he did all his research, and then he'd come to me and say, "this isn't for me after all." And then, he left. For about two weeks, I wandered around the house feeling all the empty spaces. I felt like I'd been dumped and was alone to fend for myself, except I hadn't been, and this was still someone else's home. What do you do, right? You find things to fill those empty spaces. I moved my office space (I work from home, for now) into a spare bedroom, which now serves as a complete office paired with a gigantic walk-in closet, basically. I threw stuff away. If I didn't fill both trash bins to capacity come trash day, I felt unaccomplished. I cleaned. And I cleaned some more. I remodeled our bathroom. Well, I hired someo...